Mediation allows you to quickly arrive at a solution together with clear agreements, under professional guidance

  • Ref Lips is a registered Mediator and a registered professional coach, which means she can offer professional help as a mediator or professional guidance during a mediation. Ref Lips works together with renowned notary and law firms throughout the Netherlands. This way, the agreements made at the end of the mediation can be legally recorded so that the agreements apply as alternative jurisdiction. This means that if one of the parties does not adhere to the agreements made, the judge can immediately act in summary proceedings to intervene. This gives a sense of trust and you do not have to worry that one of the parties will not adhere to the agreements.

What is mediation ?

Mediation is a form of conflict resolution in which parties reach a solution themselves with the help of a neutral mediator. This can be an alternative to a lawsuit or accelerate an ongoing case by (partially) resolving the conflict. The agreements can be recorded in a settlement agreement, which is legally binding.

The mediator is neutral and ensures, with the help of professional guidance, that you arrive at a joint solution together with the other party(ies). Registered mediators meet quality requirements and standards of conduct. Ref Lips is affiliated with the ADR International Register.

Conflict coach: Your help with mediation

Ref Lips offers support for mediation processes as a certified conflict coach and registered mediator. She helps you to prepare yourself optimally and to clearly formulate your goals, so that you get the most out of the mediation. Often, one conflict coaching session is enough to save frustration and costs. In addition, Ref Lips offers guidance as a NOBCO-registered coach in exploring your interests and position. Her unique combination of mediation, conflict coaching and coaching helps you with effective conflict resolution.

  • Relationship mediation

    Do you have a conflict in your relationship? Or are you going through a divorce? In both cases, mediation can provide a solution.


    In cases where the argument has not yet reached such a high level, but an escalation seems imminent? Then a conflict coaching session can offer a solution.

  • Business mediation

    Do you have a conflict with your employer, an employee or colleague at work? Mediation can also provide a solution here.

    Has your employer, company doctor or the UWV forced you to mediate, but you do not know how to approach this or would you like someone to look along? Then choose coaching or guidance in mediation. Ref Lips is a certified mediator himself, which ensures that you receive professional help in entering into mediation.

    Don't know how to prepare for mediation? Ref Lips can also coach you in this process.

  • Family mediation

    Do you have a conflict with a family member? Do you have a conflict in the division of the estate? Ref Lips works together with
    renowned notary offices to provide you with the best possible guidance in
    dividing the estate or inheritance.

    This way you can end conflicts with family with the best possible feeling.

  • Legal mediation

    Do you need mediation for a legal conflict? Ref Lips works with renowned notary and law firms throughout the Netherlands. She can guide you through this process.